Hands Are Not for Hitting / Las Manos No Son Para Pegar

Help kids manage big emotions, build self-control, and choose safe, positive behaviors with this English-Spanish bilingual picture book.

Strong feelings are a natural part of growing up—but hitting is not okay. Hands Are Not for Hitting / Las manos no son para pegar is an engaging English-Spanish bilingual picture book that helps children ages 4–7 understand their emotions and learn safe, respectful ways to respond.

Using simple, kid-friendly language and bright, relatable illustrations, this reassuring book teaches children that hands are for helping, playing, creating, and caring—not hurting. Kids learn to pause, identify their feelings, and use words to express needs, set boundaries, or ask for help instead of hitting.

Part of the award-winning Best Behavior®series, this book supports social-emotional learning by helping children build self-awareness, emotional regulation, and positive behavior skills they can use every day at home and in the classroom.

In this book, children will:

Learn that hitting is not okay and explore safe alternativesPractice using words to express feelings and solve problemsDiscover positive ways to use their hands for helping and creatingBuild self-control and emotional awarenessDevelop respectful, nonviolent behavior

Perfect for parents, caregivers, educators, and counselors, this book is ideal for addressing challenging behaviors, reinforcing boundaries, and guiding children toward positive choices.

Includes a helpful adult section in both English and Spanish with tips and strategies for teaching self-control, encouraging communication, and supporting children through big emotions.